If you are a British blogger or at least familiar with parent British bloggers, Darren of One Dad 3 Girls needs no introduction at all. Aside from the fact that he hosts the lovely #MySundayPhoto linky, he has won and has been a finalist in so many British Blogging awards that I’ve actually lost count! So if you’re wondering what all the fuss is all about, read on and head over to his blog after:
Tell us something about yourself and your little ones.
Hi, my name is Darren and I have two beautiful daughters. My eldest is 7 and her name is Aly, and Mia is 4 years old and about to start Primary School in September.
What were your little ones birth stories like?
Both of the births were different. Aly was a long drawn out affair where we were at the hospital for 36 hours before she was born. Mia on the other hand was super quick, so quick in fact that we almost had it in the hospital car park.
What you wish you knew about being a Dad before becoming one?
Honestly I don’t think there was anything I wish I knew. No one goes into parenthood totally prepared and that’s part of the joys of it.
How do you balance your time between work and fatherhood?
I’m very lucky with my work life and have a great job that means I’m home at 5pm ever weekday and have all weekends off. This is something I have always tried to do so that we enjoy time together.
How do you manage childfree time with your wife? Do you have date-nights?
Honestly we hardly have any free time. We have the odd day out here and there but it’s only about once a week. We’d rather spend the time with our children.
Any favourite anecdotes of your little ones?
Everyday seems to be an anecdote with my two. It’s so beautiful and nice to see them playing together and you’ll often hear them playing schools together and pretending to be the teachers with their cuddly toys.
What is it about fatherhood you love about?
I enjoy how each day is different. They are always coming out with new things that they’ve learnt during the day. Plus they are always so happy to see you, each and ever ytime.
If there is anything about fatherhood you dislike about, what would it be?
In the beginning it was probably the feeding during the nights or the nappies but it’s those times when you really bond with your children so I wouldn’t change them or anything about fatherhood.
If you were given the chance to be a stay-at-home-Dad would you take it?
If I could afford it then possibly yes. The age my girls are now it would be a pretty lonely time as the house would be empty all day long.
Best Advice you’ve ever received about Fatherhood?
Before they were born I read a few books and social media wasn’t really around but someone told me to take photos as before you know it they’ve grown up.
If you can give yourself advice before becoming a Dad, what would it be? Just to simply enjoy every moment as they don’t stay little for long.
Thank you so much Darren!
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