On Writing and the BiB Awards

The lovely Samantha invited me to join in the Writing Process Blog Hop.  I love a good Q & A especially if it involves books and writing.  So of course, I couldn’t refuse.


1) What are you working on?

This is embarrassing, but I’ve been working on a few short stories for about a couple of years now (maybe even three!)  It’s just so difficult to write creatively when you’re a mum of an excitable three-year-old who is at that lovely sometimes annoying stage, you know the Why do we need hands? Feet? Eyes? so on and so forth stage.  I can barely write a decent blog post!

But I’ve been specifically trying to work on this story I wrote about two strangers who meet in a small coastal English town.  The man is German and in his 80s.  He’s been going back to the same seaside village for the past fifty years.  He likes to sit on this particular bench facing the sea and one time he meets a woman (a foreigner too, though it’s not really mentioned where she’s from in the story) and they start a conversation.  Since the woman lives there, they eventually over the years keep meeting on the same bench.  It’s one of those “talkie” type of short stories, where nothing much is going on and it’s purely conversation which of course, others might find boring.  I like it though.  It’s a quiet and simple story about strangers who form an unlikely friendship.

2) How does your work differ from others in the genre?

I write from personal experience, though that’s really no different from others I guess.  While the story mentioned above was loosely based on myself, the German is fictitious of course.

3) Why do you write what you write?

Was it Mark Twain who said “Write what you know?”  But I bet though, other writers before him has said that too.  It’s always easy to write what you know about.  I think your writing also comes out more sincere and not constrained or worse pretentious.

So yes, I like to base my fiction on something I’ve experienced or something I’m at least familiar with.

4) How does your writing process work?

I haven’t had a “writing process” for years now.  I used to when I was single and living on my own.  At the moment, all I can say is that the only “writing process” I have is to sit down and just write as if your very life depended on it.

I wrote the story mentioned above – “Same Time Next Year” in one sitting.  I think my husband took my daughter out for a little outing without me so I could have a bit of a rest.  Instead of putting up my feet on the table, I typed furiously away.  That’s the first time I’ve ever done that.  You know, start a story, from the very beginning and actually finish it till the very end.  I have loads of attempts, first drafts on my files, most of them rubbish actually.  But I think the trick there is to silence your inner critic and just keep writing as fast as you can and see where it takes you.

The German character in that story actually “appeared” to me.  No, nothing ghostly as an actual apparition, but I really saw him vividly in my head, walking up the headland.  What he looked liked, how he walked and I just knew him right away.

I entered that story in a major writing competition here in the UK.  Of course, I didn’t win.  I just figured at that time, no harm in trying right?  The contest had a three thousand word-count, so I had to edit it down a lot.  I want to re-write it and maybe make it into a novella.  Perhaps when my daughter starts proper school, I’ll be able to get down and finally do it once and for all.  And who knows, enter it in another contest and even win?

For now I think I’ll stick to trying to write decent blog-posts in between answering my daughters questions like Why do we need eyes mummy?  


Incidentally, I received an email from Britmums inviting me to nominate myself or other bloggers in the 2014 BiBS Awards (Brilliance in Blogging).  I’ve already shamelessly emailed all my family and close friends to nominate me for the MAD Awards.  But stayed mum about it in my blog, however I’ve decided to make a go for it this time (and spare my family and friends from pleading with them to vote for me again), so if you think I have a chance, thank you for nominating me, though I have a feeling it will be a bit like that time when I joined a major writing competition and it went pfft.  I tried at least, right?

I’ve already voted and in case you guys need a little nudge, here are fantastic bloggers who really ought to win and the good new is that there are lots of different categories and I’m sure you can all fit them in.  They are all British bloggers by the way, I’m not really sure if it’s only open to British bloggers or at least bloggers who live in the UK. If I’m wrong, please correct me.

Hurrah for Gin (A sure Winner.  Yay, go Katie!)


Coombe Mill

Space for the Butterflies

Over There to Here

Ramblings of a former Rock n Roll Mum

The Secret Father

Englishman in Italy

The Adventures of Sonny and Luca

P.H. Davies

Verily Vocalises

Mum turned Mom

3 Children and It

The Coffee Table Years

The Fat Worm

Thank you!

This post is linked up with #PoCoLo


  1. Sara (@mumturnedmom)

    Thank you so much for the mention xx Lots of luck to you and your lovely blog x

  2. Kate @ Did That Just Happen?

    okay, I can’t figure out how to go vote/nominate you. It just keeps asking for my name and email… Apparently I’m not smarter than the Bibs.

    • Hahaha. No worries, Kate. I was as perplexed as you when I first tried. Once you’ve filled up that bit, you have to scroll down and something should pop up! 🙂 Thank you! xx

  3. cariemay

    That sounds like a great story – just my cup of tea, I hope you get the chance to finish it one day! And thank you so much for the mention, I’m truly honoured. X

  4. krissottoh

    Your short story is wonderful and sounds like it could be turned into a novel. There’s something about getting lost while writing and feeling the characters are real in front of you. I’ve actually written two novels which I’ve put into the attic so to speak. One of them I will dust off someday. Thank you for including me in your list! (I voted for you in the Mads 🙂 )

    • Oh you must do something about those novels! Two?! I can only hope for one! If you can’t find a publisher, you can always self-publish or join a writing competition 🙂 As for the MADS, thank you!

  5. hurrahforgin

    Oh Dean you are too kind to me! You totally deserve an award, you are one of my very favourite bloggers. I just adore your writing style.

    Would love to read your story too, books don’t have to be about anything much as long as the writing carries you away which I’m sure yours does xx

  6. I think all us bloggers have a book in us :). It is not way doing this process when you have kids either. Thank you so much for including me in your list for the BiBs – all the very best of luck to you too. Look forward to meeting you at Britmums (assuming you’re going?) Thanks for linking to PoCoLo x

  7. ❤Shahnaz❤ (@janglitz)

    So many amazing blogs x good luck to you and everyone else x

  8. Actually Mummy

    Gosh I’m fascinated by the writing. I have a book in me, I know I do, but I keep putting off getting started, because I’m waiting for the right time to settle to it. There isn’t a right time though, is there? I’m just procrastinating!
    Good luck with the BiBs – hope to see you there!

    • Oh you should get down to writing it! I know easier said than done 🙂 And I should’ve included you on the list too! I’m sure though, like Katie, you’re a sure winner 🙂

  9. The Coffee Table Years

    Wow – thank you so much for the nomination. That is really inspiring. Good luck with your writing. I toy with the idea of writing fiction but don’t seem to have the discipline. I can barely squeeze in one blog post a week if I’m lucky. But I am just reading an amazing essay on the writing process by Ann Patchett, a favorite author of mine. I might blog about it. You might be able to find the essay online – it’s called The Getaway Car.

    • Oh will definitely look for that essay. I haven’t heard of her, so I’m really excited about finding new authors to read – thank you! 🙂

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