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Book Review: Momma Don’t You Worry

I’ll be the first to admit, I’m a paranoid mother.  I have unfounded fears about something not nice happening to my daughter when she’s not with me.  When she’s out on a school-trip, I actually count the hours till she’s back safe in our home.  When we’re out walking the dog in our little village, I hold her hand.  I know when she’s with her dad, he lets her run ahead without him, but she’s a good girl. She knows when to stop and wait for her dad.  Somehow she knows that when she’s with me, she’s not allowed to do that.  She holds my hand even without me telling her to do so.

Momma Don’t you Worry by Louie Lawent, is a sweet-very easy book to read to your little ones.  It explains the importance for children to listen to their parents and hold their hands when out in big crowds, without scaremongering.  The words have a nice rhythm to it, which of course will appeal to children, as it did with little T, although I think she was just a little bit too young for the book.

However, little T still appreciated the story and understood what it meant.  When I asked her what the story was all about, she said “It’s about a little boy who got lost because he didn’t want to hold his mummy’s hand”.  Then she added, “I always hold your hand mummy”.  She certainly does 🙂

The book is available on Amazon and Barnes & Noble for only $1.29.  So if you’re looking for a book to add to your collection, or if you have a stubborn little one who refuses to hold your hand, this might just be the perfect book to give to them.

What about you? Are you a paranoid mother too?

Disclaimer:  Was sent a PDF copy by the author of the book for the purpose of this review, however opinions are by mine alone and of course, little T’s as well.

Book Review: Confessions of a Mother Inferior by Ericka Waller

“One day I will find the right words, and they will be simple”
– Jack Kerouac

Write what you know about, what you’re familiar with, I’ve heard those lines dozens of times from writing workshops, and books on writing; advice for people who want to write their own novel for the very first time and Ericka Waller, did just that.

This is a must-read for all mothers; you’ll recognise each and every character she has mentioned on the book.  The school-run mothers, I know them too. You know, those who like to stand around in circles, talking as if they have nothing else important to do.  Perhaps, they’re just stalling and doing their best to delay going back home to a pile of unwashed dishes/laundry, not to mention the mess in the living room.  Women who make you feel like a crap parent, because their kids go to school with packed lunches straight out of a pinterest page (What?! Your daughter’s sandwich isn’t shaped like a Ninja turtle?!)  And yes, they are also probably the same mums who have been drilling their kids with flash cards even before school started.  Thank goodness there are no mums in Little T’s school who show up with matching shoes and handbags.  But then again, that’s because we live in a small village by the sea.  We however have, slim, tall and blonde mothers.  The rest of us are short and fat.  Yes, I also am aware that all these are probably just in our heads.  We mothers are nuts, like that.  But no one else is allowed to say it, or else there will be war!

Erica Waller vividly describes this.  Confessions of a Mother Inferior is funny, witty and is sad too.  It’s not just the characters who suspiciously sounds like your friend or next-door-neighbor, but also the situations, and instances.  It’s almost like you’ve invited her to your home after the school run, for a cuppa, and a little chit-chat.  You know the loneliness that engulfs you as you plod on each day picking up duplo or lego parts, and you’re wondering, is this it?  Is this my life?  And you think I used to have a life and a career.  Whatever happened, and then the guilt seeps in and you think, you’re not supposed to feel that way, because you love your family and your kids.

And Peta, the main character in the book not only has to deal with all these, she is also dealing with grief, the death of her best-friend, even though it’s been four years, the pain is still there.    Then there are worries about her children:  Her middle child is not fully toilet trained and the eldest who just started reception class is having her own difficulties at school which would break any mother’s heart. Then there’s her husband.  There are indications that he might be having an affair with his beautiful young PA.  But is he really cheating on her?

I enjoyed the book, although sharper editing might have trimmed it down just a little bit, without diminishing the narrative (this process may have filtered out the handful of typographical errors that inhibited the flow).  And I also have to admit though that at first, I was a bit worried it was going to be one of those books that try too much to be funny and then like a bad joke, just fall flat in the end.  But she manages it perfectly well.

Erica is also a blogger and yes, I am familiar with her blog.  Admittedly again, I was worried about that too.  You see, the problem with bloggers who end up writing a book is that the reader (especially if that reader has read her blog), might struggle to separate the blogger, her life (or what she has shared in her blog) from the novel.  Yes, there are similarities.  In real life, she also has three kids, with the same age bracket, and is also a writer (a journalist).  But does it matter?  To me it doesn’t.  She manages to pull it off too!

I was a little disappointed with the ending, but that’s just me.  Don’t worry, I won’t mention it here, you’ll have to read the book, and I do emphasise that – it’s a definite must-read, especially if you’re looking for an insight into a mother’s concerns and pressures, feelings that are so rarely shared – even at the school gate.

Disclaimer:  I was sent the book by Britain’s Next Bestseller for the purpose of this review, but opinions and photo is by yours truly.